our stork was lost, but we found him!!!!…
infertility + 4 rounds of artificial insemination + in-vitro fertilization FINALLY = TWIN BOYS!!!!
Oh, and one more thing…
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…I was at a friend’s baby shower today, and I cried. Twice. Maybe three times actually, I lost count. Anyway, this is a good friend who I met online, and she and her husband had trouble trying to conceive – I believe they tried for 20 months, and finally got lucky right before they were about to get help from a fertility clinic. She had just begun unwrapping her gifts, and I just started daydreaming about all of the talks we had while we were both struggling to get pregnant – all of the tears, being envious of those around us getting pregnant at the drop of a hat, the “why me’s” – and I just lost it. Here she was, smile on her face, little baby girl in her belly, unwrapping gifts at her baby shower. I was just overwhelmed with emotion that this is finally happening for her…and me. This is also the first baby shower I have attended since getting pregnant, so I knew I would be feeling differently. Ironically, I have another baby shower next weekend for another fellow infertile, and I am really hoping I’ll be able to hold myself together during that one.
I went to 13 – yes 13 – baby showers during our almost 3 year struggle with infertility, and I cried on the drive home after almost every single one of those. Today I cried on the drive home, too…this time out of pure happiness for my good friends and I.
Kerry













November 1st, 2008 at 9:18 pm
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November 1st, 2008 at 9:48 pm
I am so happy that you were crying tears of joy!! I can’t imagine what it’ll be like when you have *your* baby shower! How exciting!
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November 2nd, 2008 at 7:36 am
That will soon be you unwrapping those gifts and in the final stretch!
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November 2nd, 2008 at 7:59 am
Awwww! So sweet. It’s about time to have a shower that you could actually celebrate!
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November 2nd, 2008 at 11:57 am
Yay for tears of joy!
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November 2nd, 2008 at 1:55 pm
Just wait for your shower, cutie! Waaaaahhhh! (That’s supposed to be you crying!) Love ya! Sis
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November 2nd, 2008 at 2:39 pm
That is so sweet!!! Just think, it will be your shower soon!!! How exciting for you and Jeff!
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November 2nd, 2008 at 5:18 pm
Hi Dear One, Am just waitingfor Kristy to get in and thought I’d say Hi! It took me this long to \\\\figure this thing out
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November 2nd, 2008 at 8:19 pm
OMG Kerry, I’m bawling right now. Seriously.bawling.
I love you.
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November 2nd, 2008 at 9:02 pm
Aww, I know one of those showers was mine and I just wanted to thank you so much for being there for me when I was pregnant even though it took an incredible amount of strength and courage. I couldn’t be more happy that you finally get to have that joy and I can’t wait to be there for you at yours!!! I love you buddy!!!
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November 2nd, 2008 at 9:38 pm
Awww, what’s my excuse for crying other than being a big ole softie? I’m so happy for all of you guys!
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November 3rd, 2008 at 2:25 pm
That is so wonderful. I will bring a tissue for you on Sat just in case!
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November 4th, 2008 at 9:35 am
and pretty soon we’ll be having your baby shower and you can cry your freaking eyes out as much as you want.
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